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Post by dj on Dec 18, 2006 22:07:21 GMT -1
It’s very, very easy to generalize everything. I just see it all as a learning curve. I could take every type of music and give a cross section of what narrow minded people would expect - Hip Hop/RnB – Plastic gangstas, fake life styles. Violence. House/Trance – Full of pilled up weirdo’s who wouldn’t hesitate to drop something in your drink when you’re not looking. Reggae – Stoners Garage – Blap, Blap crew.com. Violence. Drum n Bass/Jungle – Spaced out, stoned scum bags. Pop – Kids, old women and gays That’s all I can think of at the moment. All I’m saying is music and life go hand in hand. Bad people like music, good people like music. Somewhere in the middle their paths will cross and it just so happen that’s it’s usually on a night out. If I like a type of music, then I’ll go and listen to it. Granted I’d be ever too aware of the shit elements, but the good far out ways the bad for me. “Most guys however go out for one thing and most guys are tossers”To an extent I agree with that statement, but it takes two too tango. Its all animal instinct, girls and guys do everything they can to be noticed, its nature. The girl wearing the short skirt, low top, will 9/10 times get noticed more then plain Jane. It happens with birds in the rainforest, it happens with birds in republic. Now a definite thought process goes into deciding how much or how little you want to be noticed. You wouldn’t (or rarely) get a self conscience girl wearing next to nothing; it’s a contradiction in terms. I’m self conscience of my appearance, but I’ll draw attention to myself anyway?? Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying girls should cover up to stop being leached at that’s wrong. I’m just saying that it works both ways; girls are just as bad as guys. If all guys were self-serving, one track minded Neanderthals then the human race wouldn’t have got very far. Guys are always seen as the aggressors in pretty much every situation. I’d would love for someone to do a survey down town one weekend. The percentage of guys and girls after the same thing would be very similar. Anyways rant over. Roll on Friday, I’m bricking it, but it’s all a learning curve.  I love Mosam |
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Post by Em10 on Dec 19, 2006 13:54:50 GMT -1
Great post DJ. We need more posts like that. You've backed up your points well.
It's not going to change my opinion though, I've said many times that i think my mates (us lot) are better than most guys. I hate the nob head guys that talk about women like they're sh1t and just there for guys to blurt into and cook and clean etc.
I notice it when i go out with different people (guys) and they start trying to show off by coming out with comments that they think makes them a man.
I think if the survey was done it would be similar but it depends how it's worded.
If it was put: Would you like to pull as a bonus - Yes it would be similar.
but if it was: Would you stil go out if there was zero chance of pulling, the results would be very different. Surveys are crap because they can be manipulated easily.
Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of slags out there, which is fine if they're single.
But you don't tend to get girl slags harrasing guys like you get guy slags harrasing girls (If you do then certainly not as many). Pestering, leatching, derogatory comments, being the desperate sad bastards that alot of guys are.
Rant over.
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Post by patch13 on Dec 19, 2006 16:25:30 GMT -1
lol well i'll try and sort myself out and as we all know i'm very good at trying!!
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Post by Big B on Dec 19, 2006 21:28:05 GMT -1
I see your point the young Mosam and some people do go out for a good time, laugh etc. Most guys however go out for one thing and most guys are tossers. think tossers is a bit harsh!!!! ill be there showing you support dj!! |
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Post by jay1 on Dec 20, 2006 14:18:33 GMT -1
I see your point the young Mosam and some people do go out for a good time, laugh etc. Most guys however go out for one thing and most guys are tossers. think tossers is a bit harsh!!!! ill be there showing you support dj!! and tryin no doubt!!!  |
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Post by Big B on Dec 21, 2006 11:19:30 GMT -1
Great post DJ. We need more posts like that. You've backed up your points well. It's not going to change my opinion though, I've said many times that i think my mates (us lot) are better than most guys. I hate the nob head guys that talk about women like they're sh1t and just there for guys to blurt into and cook and clean etc. I notice it when i go out with different people (guys) and they start trying to show off by coming out with comments that they think makes them a man. I think if the survey was done it would be similar but it depends how it's worded. If it was put: Would you like to pull as a bonus - Yes it would be similar. but if it was: Would you stil go out if there was zero chance of pulling, the results would be very different. Surveys are crap because they can be manipulated easily. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of slags out there, which is fine if they're single. But you don't tend to get girl slags harrasing guys like you get guy slags harrasing girls (If you do then certainly not as many). Pestering, leatching, derogatory comments, being the desperate sad bastards that alot of guys are. Rant over. Mosam he took this out of your book.. A guide through life with Butterman - The trying dayz!!!!!!! you even made a film called trying day wher denzel washington played you!! its in the top10 in waterstones but the book What Kev Wouldnt Do for A Million??? (Live On TV) is the topseller im afraid |
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Post by patch13 on Dec 21, 2006 14:37:42 GMT -1
Some good rants but u hav all missed one thing that we have all done each of the above maybe not with the lack of style that u see sometimes but still the same outcomes.
Every single members of the human race is always out looking for thier next person to sleep with men, women it doesn't matter everyone does it but most people who are in relationships won't act on it they are content then thier are others who will act on it, and then their are the single people who either do or they don't but it doesn't matter for them!!
However u shouldn't put them into catergories of people who act on different kinds of music or if the do late clubs or bars because certain types of people attract each other it doesn't matter where u are people who are like you will gather together people who aren't will gather somewhere else.
E.g. republic: Upstairs People who have money or are considered cool!! RnB floor Gansta wannabees and ghetto wannabe girls, Red room older people and people who want dance music, downstairs pissheads and students they gather around each other it's that simple!!
Patch 101
Rant over!!
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Post by jubbs14 on Dec 21, 2006 19:51:27 GMT -1
i'll some it all up for you,
Guys are pricks who will fuck or try to fuck anything including girls who are not interested but they still try all night. Now thats bad enough but put the pissed guys in a club at the end of the night where they reflect on how unsuccessfull they have been then that makes em 10 times worse!
If a girl comes up to try it on but you tell em you are in a relationship then they back off, i gay.. i mean guy will still try regardless. I dont know where all this putting people into catagories has come from, all we said was clubs are shit because its full of pissed guys (or for those sensitive people "pisses people") trying it on with girls.
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Post by jay1 on Dec 22, 2006 0:01:44 GMT -1
if you dont like clubs then cool, if you do then cool its your choice! I aint gonna make come.
But none has any right to judge anyone so every1 needs to stop puttng ppl into catagories and just accept thts how it is. I like clubs so I could say tht you wiped for not goin to a club or something like that but if your slagging off all guys tht go to clubs n try then you slagging off your friends aswell just remember tht cos there is no difference between me n patch chatting up a girl to some random guy doing the same thing. oh I no girls who are worst then guys for trying so its not just guys, girls want the same thing we do.
mini rant over
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Post by dj on Dec 22, 2006 0:05:28 GMT -1
I wanna fu*k the girl on Pop The Q reyht bad
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Post by jubbs14 on Dec 22, 2006 5:40:06 GMT -1
Its makin me laugh how this is all snowballing into a big argument about catagories and peoples beliefs and what not. I dont like clubs for my reasons, you guys do. I dont think we are ever gonna agree or at least not until you get fed up of them or I start to enjoy them so lets not get into big arguments. Its xmas after all so lets all get along. x x x
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Post by Em10 on Dec 27, 2006 8:24:20 GMT -1
This is a great topic. We're not going to agree on everything but it's good to see everyone's views and people stringing sentences together and having a good debate. We all love having a laugh on here but this is a refreshing change.
Jubbs is right though, i think we've all made our points and I agree with parts of everyone's. Well done boys!
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